Saturday, 26 April 2014

Be Confident Guys and Get Your Woman

WHEN it comes to dating (or even seducing) a woman then confidence is vital.

Women often equate self confidence with the ability to be successful.

Many men believe that women look for successful men because they're likely to make more money- that's simply not true.

Women actually look for successful men because they're more likely to be satisfied. You see a man who is satisfied with himself is less likely to go out looking for someone to satisfy them and are far more stable and less insecure.

And in a relationship that means a man will be less likely to cheat, change jobs frequently or get himself into any number of other compromising situations. Remember, most women are looking for a man who will be their partner as well as their lover.

Us women not only want a partner when it comes to things like companionship, decision-making and finances, but in the bedroom as well. In order to effectively seduce a woman you must make her feel as though you're both equals.

When it comes to confidence it seems there are two kinds of people - those who have it and others who simply don't. However, here is the thing- everyone can feel confident and if you don't feel confident then you have to fake it to get a woman. The more you fake it the more likely you will end up feeling confident as it will become a learned habit.

Take heart in knowing that you are a good person, you are smart, you are funny, you are good at your job and you are loving and considerate and you would make a great partner. 

Be comforted to know that NOT all women are looking for a CEO or brain surgeon. They just want a man who's confident with who he is, what he knows and what he has to offer in a relationship.


Keep Your Man By Being a Confident Girlfriend

Tuesday, 22 April 2014

Is there life after infidelity?

WHEN it comes to fixing a relationship after infidelity there is good news and there is bad news. The good news is that no matter how screwed up the relationship is it can be fixed, if you want it bad enough. If there has been forgiveness and both parties are committed 100% to doing whatever it takes to make it work then things can get better.

Both parties have to understand and accept that it will take time and work and they have to be mature enough to admit to some of their own shortcomings. If you are both at that place you have an excellent chance of working things out.

The bad news is that if the problems are too overwhelming and/or both of you are not willing to do the work and find a solution, the odds of fixing a relationship after infidelity go way down. It is not impossible at this point, but it will be so much more difficult.

So, step one would be to honestly assess where you and your partner are now and then where exactly you might be headed. Do some serious soul searching and determine if both of you are mature enough to face up to the issues and stick with it long enough to find a solution
If so, go on to step two. If not, ask yourself why you want to save the relationship. Sometimes love just is not a good enough reason to save a relationship.

If you try to save your relationship with out the help of your partner, it can be very easy to fall into the trap of becoming a door mat to them. If they feel that the hurt is so great that they will not work with you to save the relationship, it is almost a guarantee that they may also try to sabotage all the hard work you are trying to do.

Step two would be to figure out what other problems and issues the two of you are dealing with and what needs to happen to fix them. Do the two of you just seem to have drifted apart? If so, why? What has changed? Do you now have kids and find it harder to really connect with each other? Has one of you taken on a new more stress filled job and is it affecting your home life?

Once you identify what the issues you are having really are then you have a much better chance of dealing with them effectively. Do not let life and it's stresses come between you. This is usually not the real problem in most cases, anyway, it works well as an excuse for bad behaviour though. Figure out the real problems and then work together on a solution.

Sometimes finding someone to help you sort it all out can be nothing short of a miracle. Finding a therapist or counsellor can help. If nothing else, a counsellor can act as a sort of referee so the two of you do not get too upset and start fighting. Nothing will ever get worked out if the fighting continues.

Keep in mind that you can't fix anything until you figure out what is broken. There is no difference between a broken relationship and a broken belt on your car. If you do not diagnose what the problem is, you can't fix your relationship after infidelity.

Friday, 4 April 2014

How many calories do you burn in the bedroom? Find out with the sex calculator

IT'S time to get physical and burn some calories.

Sex has always been a great way to help shed some pounds, and let's face it, getting steamy between the sheets is way more fun than hitting the gym.

And now, thanks to online pharmacy, you can tell exactly how many calories you burn with their sex calculator.

According to their website for a half-an-hour session up to 150 calories can be burned, which is the equivalent of jogging for 15 minutes.

 Sarah Bailey of said: "The sex calculator is a fun tool to give users an estimate of the calories burnt during sex sessions.

"Of course, if you’re going to treat this time together like it’s just a work out, your partner may get a bit offended.

"Having said that, some of the skimpy gym clothes could relate quite nicely in the bedroom

"Who knows - this calculator could well inspire a whole new wave of bedroom yogas and acrobats!"

So what are you waiting on? Try it out for yourself!