Saturday, 17 August 2013

Find Out if Your Woman is Right For You?

It's great to have a long term relationship even if you do have your ups and downs with your partner.

Maybe you have met a wonderful woman who makes you happy but have you ever wondered if she is the right girl for you?

Many couples break up after a long time together because they finally realise that they are not compatible with each other. Even worse is the fact couples that are married get divorced because they are not suitable with each other and didn't realise this earlier.

So, if you are in a relationship right now stop for a second and analyse it.

Even if things are going well you have to think if she is the right girl for you in the longrun, the one with whom you want to spend all your life with.

How do you know if she is the right one? Here are some things that might help you:

Does she make you feel happier, makes you smile more, helps you every time you need it, is she a person you can trust, someone you see you can have a future with?

Is you woman focused on you? Make sure you are definitely not second place in her life.

Make sure she loves you, you can see this from her attitude; observe the way she looks at you and treats you everyday, how she speaks with you.

Eye contact it is also very important, so watch out because if she doesn't have the courage to look directly in your eyes when you talk with her, something is wrong there.

She has to be smart, intelligent; this is a kind of woman who wont let you get bored, because she will constantly surprise you. Also it is nice to have someone you can talk to who is on your level.

It is very important to be sexually compatible with you; this means that there has to be an undeniable attraction between you two, and you are able to communicate your desires verbally; you have to please each other in the bedroom.

She has to have patience in your relationship; so test her; if she asks you to take her out to dinner tell her that now it is not possible because you don't have money so she has to wait until pay day; see how she reacts. If she understands then that means she loves you. If she gets angry then that usually means that she is with you only for your money.

Is she beautiful? This doesn't mean that she has to be Miss Universe, just someone who wants to look good for you and for herself. She has to be someone who you can be proud to be with.

She likes you the way you are. She doesn't try to control you, doesn't insist you give up your nights out with guys; she allows you to be yourself.

She respects you. This means that she would never cause scenes in public in front of your family and friends and wait to discuss matters with you in private. Also, she is able to listen to your opinion even if she doesn't agree with what you say.

She is willing to sacrifice certain things for you. She is willing to move in your old knackered furniture into her flat, wants to meet your friends and she is wiling to try new things even if she never wants to do them again.

She has to have her own personality and opinions; to be able to enjoy time away from you, while still missing you. An independent woman is what you need.

She is able to get along with the most important people from your life like your mum, dad, brothers, sisters and also friends.

You like the way she handles things; you like the way she sees the world, how she thinks, and her thoughts actually interest you.

She is friendly and respectful, exactly how you like. You like the way she treats other people, is kind with strangers and animals.

Now, all you have to do is to think if your girlfriend meets some of these requirements and to decide if she is the right girl for you.