Friday, 13 September 2013

Improving Your Sex Life: How to be Spontaneous

Are you looking to improve your sex life? If you are, you may have already heard that being spontaneous is a good way of going about it.

Spontaneity often leads to an increase in interest in sex and an increase in satisfaction in terms of intimacy. Unfortunately, some men and women find being spontaneous difficult.

Here are some tips and advice on living for the moment and getting more sex!

One of the many ways that you can be spontaneous is by not waiting for your partner to initiate sex. Unfortunately, many women wait for their husbands and boyfriends to get sex started. Why wait? You shouldn't. In fact, your partner may be hoping that you start showing more interest in being intimate with them? What better way to do so than initiate sex yourself?

A creative way to be spontaneous where sex is concerned is by using text messages. Try sending some sexy and seductive texts to them. Explain exactly what you want to do to them when you see them later. Or you could even give them a call and talk dirty to them.

As I mentioned earlier there are some couples who find it difficult to be spontaneous. Parents often fall into the category. Even if you are a parent who has children in the house then there are still a number of ways that you can be spontaneous. Once you have put the kids to bed then jump on your partner. Most parents want to sit down and relax after their kids have gone to bed but show your partner you have other things on your mind.

Having sex somewhere other than bed or the bedroom is another way to be spontaneous with your partner.

As for where you can have sex outside of the bedroom, use your creativity. Where do you want to have sex? What locations would allow you to try new positions that just can't be done in a bed? As well as being intimate in places like on the couch, in the bathroom, or on the kitchen table, consider going outside of the home as well, like to a hotel.

Speaking of getting intimate outside of the home, surprise your partner. You can do this by booking a night in a hotel in town. Make sure you choose one that has romantic rooms or an onsite hot tub or swimming pool. Don't tell your partner about your plans until you are ready to leave as being spontaneous involves surprising them.

As you see, there are a number of different ways that you can use spontaneity as a way to improve your relationship, both inside and outside of the bedroom.

What are you waiting for? Get started today? Your partner may appreciate your quick thinking.