Wednesday, 19 June 2013

15 Big Mistakes Men Make in a Relationship

Recently I've been giving women lots of advice on how to keep their man happy but relationships are a team effort and the guys have a huge role to play in keeping the romance and fun alive too.

So guys I have come up with a list of common mistakes that can kill a relationship.

Please avoid:

  1. Not investing enough time in your relationship. Quality time is crucial to grow a proper partnership.

  2. Orgasming first all the time. Women take longer to climax and it takes a bit of effort from you to make that happen. Don't be selfish in the bedroom as it's not fair.

  3. Never tell any woman that she has put on weight, even if you think it only makes her sexier, keep quiet.

  4. "Housework" is not just for women. You can learn how to do laundry, vacuum the house and wash the dishes too.

  5. Your partner is NOT your Mum and is not there to pick up after you all the time and have your dinner on the table at 5pm every night.

  6. Thinking everything is about you and for you. Don't be so selfish.

  7. Storming out of an argument without an agreement.

  8. Not listening to and supporting your partner's ideas even if you don't believe in them.

  9. Constantly bad mouthing her family. You knew who they were before you became totally committed to her and whether you like it or not they are there to stay. Please remember that blood is thicker than water.

  10. Not learning to be emotionally available. Women aren't asking you to stop being a man, just talk about who you are, where you came from, past history and future dreams. It's not rocket science.

  11. Don't nag at her for spending the whole day and a fortune in a beauty salon.

  1. Never criticise her cooking skills, even in the most delicate way.

  2. Never praise another woman's looks if your if your girlfriend is around. Your girlfriend is concerned about her body, no matter how perfect she seems to you.

  3. Don't take your girlfriend to sports matches unless she likes that kind of thing. She will be bored shittless otherwise.

  4. And finally try and avoid conflict. The truth is we are all different. That's what makes each one of us special. We can't agree on everything but don't make everything into an argument.