Saturday, 29 June 2013

It Doesn't Matter if You Don't Look Like Angelina Jolie- Just be Confident but Feminine

If you asked most women what type of girl men go for and couldn’t live without they would probably tell you it would be an Angelina Jolie look alike or she would have to have blonde hair, blue eyes, huge boobs and killer legs like Pamela Anderson.

Yeah this type of woman definately gets a lot of male attention but she isn’t actually the type of woman guys ultimatlely want.

Happy days I hear most of you say. Yes it is indeed good news for a lot of us ladies. Men are indeed visual creatures whose head turn at the mere sight of a hot girl but you would be surprised to find out how much more guys actually want from a woman.

For example, a team of sociologists conducted a study, trying to understand if there was a common denominator that men found attractive in women; that one thing that would get any guy to want to go over and talk to a girl.

You would never guess what the result was. No, it wasn’t her breasts, her legs or her bum. In fact, it wasn’t any body part below her chin and it wasn’t her features, either. It was her smile. The majority of men stated that they found nothing as attractive as a woman’s smile.

The point of this revelation is that you have to put your preconceived notions and the rules society has beaten into you all to one side. You need to understand that fundamentally, men and women are different and it’s alright to be a woman who doesn’t look like a Hollywood hottie first thing in the morning.

The golden rule is take care of your appearance and be confident in yourself; and as I’ve mentioned in previous posts if you aren’t a confident person then learn to fake it until that feeling becomes a reality.

Also please don’t be afraid to behave like a feminine woman. So many women go about acting like ball-breakers, maintaining: “I’m an independent woman who doesn’t need a man to take care of me.” If that is the attitude you have, and one I used to have, then I’m afraid you are giving out the wrong vibe to guys and they will ultimately stay away.

Society may have placed men and women on equal footing in the workplace and perhaps some other areas of our lives but when it comes to relationships please don’t be afraid to let your partner take control once in awhile.

Women are often afraid to be women, to appear feminine or vulnerable because they equate it with being weak. However, quite the opposite is true, because a woman who is in tune with herself and shows her vulnerability wields much more power over a man than if she were to constantly act tough. He would soon get bored with a ball-breaker.

Once you allow your inner woman to shine through then you will become the girl that all men adore and can’t live without.